What are signs my parent needs more help?

As your parents age, you may begin to notice that they need more assistance with certain things. Depending on their health, both physical and mental, there may come a time when they need a lot more help. 

It can be difficult to make the call on this, though. You want your parents to be independent, but you also want them to be safe. U.S. News and World Report explains that recognizing when your parents need more assistance sometimes requires close scrutiny. 

Hiding issues

One challenge you may have when assessing your parents’ needs is that they may hide issues they have so you do not think they need help. Your parents probably want to stay as independent as possible. They may want to avoid feeling like a burden. They may even be stubborn and just not want help. 

Whatever the situation, it is not uncommon for older adults to try to make others think they are doing fine when they really are not. Because of this, you will have to be extra diligent and pay attention to the subtle signs that your parents are having issues. 

Getting help

You do not have to do things alone. Your best ally when trying to figure out the help your parents need, if any, is the doctor and other health care professionals that treat them. Due to privacy concerns, you will need to get permission from your parents to speak with their medical caregivers, but in most cases, this is not a difficult task. 

Once you have permission, consult with the doctor about concerns he or she has. Talk about signs to look for, and speak up about anything you notice. You can easily work together to spot trouble that requires some extra care. 



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